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Everything about the clitoris and clitoral orgasms.

The clitoris or clit is a female genital organ whose visible part is located at the top of the labia minora, forming a mound of around 0.4 to 1 cm in diameter. In actual fact, it is the place where two 10 cm roots surrounding the vagina and urethra meet inside the body. This organ, with more nerve-endings than a male’s penis, plays a similar role in sexual excitement and greatly contributes to female pleasure and to reaching an orgasm
Gros plan sur le clitoris, le vagin, le prépuce du clitoris, le gland du clitoris, le frein du clitoris et les petites lèvres

Gros plan sur le clitoris, le vagin, le prépuce du clitoris, le gland du clitoris, le frein du clitoris et les petites lèvres

The clitoris is an organ that alternates between periods of rest and arousal. Touching or caressing the clitoris while it is hibernating might not make much of an impression on it. It awakens only when the woman is already feeling sexual desire. To stimulate her desire, don’t neglect foreplay.

Once the clitoris is aroused, the best bet is to give it some time so that that this arousal increases progressively until reaching a high level. This organ will be more receptive the stronger her desire is. And it takes some time for a woman’s desire to heighten. The inflow of blood to this sexual area takes time. Why? Because the clitoris is larger than what people often believe it to be. It extends far into the body, turning up towards the pubis and around the vagina. Its visible part is actually only the tip of the iceberg!

Stimulating the clitoris or the female sex organ.

Once it is ready, it’s still important to get to know it. No two women react in the same way! Start with caresses (see erotic massages) at a distance from the clitoris to start stimulating it softly (it doesn’t like to be taken by surprise), then start slowly coming closer. Some women like caresses that are just beside the clitoris, and not directly on it. Others prefer direct and gentle, but very light, touches. And yet others prefer a more direct and firm touch.

How to achieve an orgasm.

Slow and constant movements, or on the contrary, fast and variable ones? Do you think women are complicated? That’s exactly what makes them interesting. Each woman is mysterious and unique. On the other hand, the clitoris, will always be the organ essential for a woman’s pleasure. It was designed by nature to lead a woman to orgasm, much more than her vagina. So forgetting it would really be a pity! In taking the time to get to know her, to ask her what gives her the most sensations and by following her pointers and her reactions, you will receive a lot of pleasure out of helping her achieve orgasms, even multiple orgasms. This is the advantage of a lasting relationship when the couple can take time to discover one another slowly.

Using a vibrator for stimulation and orgasms.

Place the sex toy next to your skin, near the clitoris but not directly on top of it, as this experience could be extremely intense, or even painful. Some women find vibrators too intense the first times they try it out, so choose a vibrator that has several levels of vibration intensity. Try to feel where and how you react the best. The clitoris chas 8,000 nerve endings. Move it around wherever it gives you pleasure. You will surely discover that, as your excitement heightens, you need a different type of stimulation. Some people like to accelerate or increase the pressure according to their state, and others will feel the opposite need to slow down or decrease the pressure. That’s why many vibrators have variable vibration speeds. If your vibrator has only one speed, you can regulate the intensity by pushing the toy down on to your skin more or less firmly. Don’t forget to use lubricants or even a good cunnilingus might hit the spot.